When I woke up on this day, a tiny bit hung-over from the night before and definitely still exhausted, I felt everything but excited about our day’s plans. After-all, having such a great time in Anzali and Mosooleh, I could not really imagine anything really worth my time. However, Rasht had one more jewel to offer, Lahijan.
Before I get too in-debt about Lahijan, I wanna take a couple minutes on an aside that I entered into my notebook on this day. This little observation is not at all unique to Rasht and it’s prevalent throughout Iran. In Iran, a lot of streets are named after fallen soldiers from the Iran and Iraq war. Now at passing this may not sound like a very significant or even noteworthy observation but take a moment and think about it. Imagine Americans streets, maybe the street you live on, named after an American solider who died in the Vietnam war or something. It is really weird. It extends beyond just street names as throughout Iran pictures of fallen soldiers can be seen plastered on billboards and on bridges next to flags of Iran. I guess what I am getting at is this nationalism that seems to be pounded into the people of Iran. I mean how can you be against a war if the street you live on is named after a soldier who died fighting for “you,” and the roads you take to work have pictures of all these people who died.
Ok back to Lahijan. So we drove to Lahijan, passing by the tomb of the guy who brought tea to Iran from India. It was sweet because the guy who we were with told us the story about how this guy went to India for trade and came back with tea and the king loved it so he started farms and he tried to grow really good quality tea in Iran. Pretty cool story but without remembering the tea-man’s name and the specifics it kind of takes away from it. Maybe one day when I write an autobiography of my sweet life I will actually take the time to look him up and include him somewhere. haha. (slightly serious though).
The sights of Lahijan were spectacular. Once we got there we rode a gondola to the top of a mountain-side overlooking Lahijan. It was about a 15minute ride and the intensity of the greens and the contrast with white from the homes down below with the blue of the ocean in the distance were just a magical combination. Once at the top, we bought some ice-cream and sat in a little hut type of thing that overlooked the city below.
After riding down we drove back home and cleaned beans while the lunch was being made. That’s a sentence you don’t get to say often and it’s interesting on TWO front. ONE it is interesting because it really was kind of fun to sit around with people and talk and peel the skin off these stupidly hard to peel beans with a bunch of people you met only two days ago. I mean that would NEVER happen in America. Which brings me to number TWO. It may be something I have touched on a bit before also but these are the moments I realized how much of a foreigner I was in what I thought was my own country. I mean for people living in Iran it may not sound too exotic to have three complete strangers over at your house and be hospitable to them and then sit around and laugh together and clean bean. However, to me, and to other Americans, it is completely strange but WONDERFUL. It is these types of things that makes me proud and excited about my Iranian background. I feel I could house people and become close to them in a short time just like this family did to me in Rasht. That’s how I’ve been raised. We have people over at my uncle’s house all the time and each time it is different people but we make everyone feel like family. I don’t think, and I have some personal experience when I say this, that American families are the same. There is this “formality,” this “guest mode” I like to call it, that families go into that makes you feel like an outsider. This goes from behavior all the way down to dinner conversation where you talk about the most boring things. Anywho, I don’t want to blanket any one group and I have also felt this same “guest” feeling at Iranian people’s houses but what I’m getting at is I feel Iranian culture is a bit more hospitable and I think it works because at the end of the second day you feel like you love this family and you don’t mind cleaning stupid beans.
After lunch we flew back to Tehran and from there showered and went straight to my Aunt’s house. We had yet to go to her house and with me leaving in a few days that was not going to be kosher. There is just so limited time for everything you want and “need” to do.
We enjoyed dinner sitting around with a big family at a beautiful table with many different types of food. My aunt, like everyone else we visited in our stay in Iran, went all out for us. I mean we hadn’t been to Iran in 12 years and everyone just was yearning to have us spend time with them and they definitely showed it through the food. The awesome thing about Persian food btw, I don’t know if I have mentioned this before, but it has GREAT colors. When a table is set and you look at it as a whole it’s like a garden overflowing with colors. There are greens, whites, reds, golden browns, yellows ect.
After our long day we went home around 2:30a.m. What I noticed happened over these last few days was that we were now saying goodbye to the same people we were saying hello to a few weeks ago. As I was going to sleep on this night I realized for the first time that my Iran trip is ending soon.
I have not done this many time, but I will now include a quick expert from my diary which I think is fitting way to finish this post:
“I really feel like I lived here. I got to experience the people, places, the hardships and it (traveling) was all easy. I know Europe will be harder at first being by myself but I know I can do it. It will be fun maybe questionable (I donno what I meant here) but it will be memorable. I really hope I see most of these people and this country again”